It is habitual for us to give blame to unsatisfactory outcomes in our life, be it in relationships or circumstantial. This disempowers us and we become helpless to live a brilliant life. Instead strive for self-mastery and take on the responsibility of creating your world. When something unfavourable happens to you, from that outcome, look for the gift. Take a step back and look at the bigger picture. What did you learn and what can you do to make things different for the next time around? Know that you are bigger than your setbacks. If you can come to appreciate your learning, you will embrace your future challenges and seek to do more, experience more, play more.