We are either in fear or in love. Love and fear cannot be in the same space at the same time. Like a deer in a blinding light, fear immobilises us. When the fear takes over, we freeze; we react. The response can be inappropriate, futile and ineffective. How then do we master love? Love begins with us. It begins with a deep seated love we have for our whole entire being. First connect and rediscover the love that is innately within us, then loving others will flow naturally. C